PURPLE CITIES NEWS & BLOG
The Purple Cities Alliance provides dementia education and training resources that enable community members and organizations to become more dementia friendly.
We are so stoked to announce the upcoming Rock Against Dementia free concert on Saturday, May 14th from 6-10pm located at Union Place Bar & Grill, 4884 Chambliss Ave., Knoxville, TN 37919!!!
Aww sooky sooky! Union Place is coming up with some radical purple drink specials for the night! Natalie with Union Place has been totally awesome to work with and we love her enthusiasm! We will have some wicked auction items and funkadelic t-shirts for sale!
Cindi and The Groove will be performing and we are going with a 70’s theme this year. It is going to be outta sight! So get your fly outfits and good vibes ready as we will be selecting the top three groovy individuals! Also, we will be looking for the top three funky pets in their 70’s threads! Sandsation & the Knox Shimmy Mob are totally cool-o-roonie and will be joining us to boogie down with a performance!
Heather Haley with WVLT will be our Emcee this year and she will be off the hook! Heather has been a supporter of Purple Cities Alliance for some time now and we are stoked to have her this year!
HERE IS THE SKINNY ON SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES :
Stayin Alive Level - $1000.00
Listed as Presenting Sponsor on all advertising media. Logo on slideshow, poster, opportunity to speak at the event and short video to share on social media.
Boogie Wonderland Level - $500.00
Logo on slideshow, poster & social media.
Disco Inferno Level - $250.00
Logo on the slideshow.
SEE SPONSOR PAGE HERE
Keep On Keepin On……….
Please call 865-824-4300 to pay for a sponsorship or you may mail a check to: Senior Citizens Home Assistance Service, PO Box 3025, Knoxville, TN 37927. If mailing a check, please call me at 423-202-1737 & let me know. SCHAS we thank you for all your help!
No jive talking here as we are grateful for the following sponsorships to date:
Stayin Alive Level – Morning Pointe (Presenting Sponsor)
Boogie Wonderland Level – Alzheimer’s Tennessee, Asbury Place, UT Home Services
Disco Inferno Level – The Courtyards Senior Living, Franklin & Kyle Elder Law, Mac’s Pharmacy, Senior Helpers of Greater Knox
Can you dig it??????
We need some stellar auction items!!! You can drop them off at Trinity Hills or I can pick it up from you. We would like to thank the following for the slamnin’ auction items we already have: Always Best Care, Alzheimer’s Association, Franklin & Kyle Elder Law, UT Home Services, Roost, Senior Home Assistance & Westmoreland Health & Rehab.
As many of you know we award grants (2-3) with the money raised from this event and is opened to companies that serve people with dementia.
You can apply for the Grant HERE
The deadline to submit your application is April 8, 2022. We will announce the recipients of the grants at the concert.
We encourage all of you closet disco queens and kings to come out and get your groove on! It’s going to be a far out time!
Sending you love, peace & good vibes ☺
Mark your Calendars for May 14th, 2022!!
Date: May 14th 2022
Location: Union Place Bar & Grill
Entertainment By: Cindi Alpert & the Groove
Find out more about The Purple Cities Alliance Here: www.purplecities.org
Purple Cities Alliance, Knoxville TN celebrated it's Fifth Purple CIties Day on May 11, 2019 with a celebration in Fountain City Park. Despite the wet weather, we had a great turnout and enjoyed an afternoon of music and celebration.
We were proud to announce LInda Smith as our first Purple Cities Person of the Year. Linda's heart and soul have always been in caring for our elders and most especially those with Alzheimer's and other dementia related disorders. She served on committees for Alzheimer's TN including the planning committees for the annual Walk and Caring Hearts Awards. Linda was always there to lend a hand wherever it was needed. She never met a stranger, her warm smile and infectious laugh put everyone she met at ease. We lost our friend Linda on October 13, 2019, she is sadly missed.
On May 11, 2019 we also awarded Grants to SCHAS, CAC/Office on Aging and Cades. The grants are to be used to enhance programs for our neighbors with dementia.
Our Rock Against Dementia Concert was a huge success, with the largest crowd we have ever had. We look forward to another exciting Rock on March 28 when we return to Schulz Brau Brewing Company.
When we began our journey toward making Knoxville a dementia friendly community, our main focus was on training groups of people. Over the last 5 years we have held many trainings for church groups, city employees, civic organizations etc.but we now realize that we don't need a large group, or a set training schedule. Our members are out in the community every day, teaching everyone they meet how to approach and assist someone who may be confused in public. We can teach our servers in every restaurant where we have a meal, every cashier in every store we shop in. We can teach our children, our neighbors, everyone we meet. It doesn't take much time or effort to just pass on our information.
We still want to do the big meetings but we need to be sure we don't pass on any opportunity to enlighten even one person a day.
In the new year ahead, let's make that our goal. To teach one person a day and we will truly be a dementia inclusive community. Happy New Year!
As the holidays approach so does the desire to bring the whole family together to celebrate. If you have a family member in a nursing home or assisted living and they have dementia, please think very hard about taking them home to celebrate. Some people do just fine but for others its very frightening. There may be too much noise, kids running around, people talking all at once, people asking them questions they don't know how to answer and maybe they don't even recognize anyone!
While we always want to include all our loved ones, many people with dementia aren't even aware that it is a holiday. You may find that just visiting them in their familiar surroundings will be a better experience for all involved. Join them for a meal at their home over the holidays, bring them a favorite dish and share it with them. Don't be upset if they don't know its Christmas, that won't change the pleasure they will get from being with you. Don't ask them if they remember things, but tell them about your memories because that may trigger theirs. Most of all enjoy the holidays and don't stress!
Take a moment to think about your neighbors who may be all alone during the holiday season, this is the time when people feel the lonliest and depression is a real problem. Be the one to knock on their door with some Christmas cookies and wish them a good holiday! Let's use the good feelings we have at Christmas and reach out to those we usually overlook.
Be good to yourselves as well. Remember this season doesn't have to be about the perfect tree or decorations, it doesn't have to be about the most expensive gift. It needs to be about joy, friendship, good will and love. Relax and enjoy it! Sing carols, eat cookies, laugh! Its Christmastime!
Why do people think that someone with dementia is "out of it", "won't notice if I never visit", "can't tell that I am laughing at them"
Why do people think that it doesn't matter how you approach a person with dementia because they are not with it!
I recently heard that when a first responder was approached with the possibility of getting dementia training to enable him to take care of someone with dementia, the first responder said, "I don't need that, they are out of it"...So I assume this first responder believes that a person with dementia would not be afraid, or become aggressive because of fear. That they don't recognize the expression on your face when you think they are "crazy" and not worth worrying about.
This is what we are about! This is what we are here to change!
People with dementia are as deserving of consideration and respect as anyone else, In an emergency situation they will require a little more compassion and kindness because they do recognize something to fear even if they can't respond the way the rest of us would.
If you are a first responder please get some training. If know a first responder, please encourage them to get some training about the best ways to approach a confused person. Please learn about the diseases that cause dementia and don't be so off handed about it...chances are you will one day be walking in their shoes! Many of us will find ourselves with one of the diseases that cause dementia. That doesn't change who we are or what we have done in our lives, it changes how other people treat us.
If you haven't already had our Purple Cities training, take 15 minutes and get it! Or go get it somewhere else. There are resources everywhere to learn what everyone needs to know. PLEASE, help us make the world a safe, comfortable place for people with dementia. Stop laughing, dementia is not a joke!
A woman is doing her shopping, suddenly she doesn’t quite know where she is, and everything looks strange. She can’t even remember how she got there, or how to get home. She becomes upset, she walks to the front of the store and out the door with a basket of items unpaid for. The store employee chases her, accuses her of stealing. She is frightened now, she has no idea what this man is talking about. He is calling the police, terror is coursing through her. She knows this is a nightmare but she can’t seem to wake up! People are all around her, they look angry. Then one person comes slowly toward her, smiling gently, he approaches from the front, extends his hand to shake hers and introduces himself. He says he is there to help and that everything will be okay. He asks everyone to please back away and give them some space. He assures the store employee that he will get the basket but please just give him a few minutes. He then turns back to the woman and again tells her his name and this time she responds by telling him her name. She is calming down and things are beginning to clear in her mind. He ask her if he can have the basket so the store employee can take it back inside. She is surprised to find it in her hand. The man invites her to sit on the bench and they begin having a conversation about the weather, their families, and their homes. The police have arrived but they don’t approach, they can see that the man knows what to do. After a short time the man has found out how to contact her family, and they come to the store to get her. The outcome is a good one. Without that one person, this could have been very different. The woman might have gotten lost and wandered far away from her home and family, the police might have arrested her for stealing, but one person knew what to do and changed the outcome.
Do you want to be that one person? It takes about fifteen minutes to do the Purple Cities Training and when you are finished you will know how to recognize someone having confusion, someone who needs help. You can be the person who changes the situation from one of terror to calm and safe.
It’s hard to imagine how it feels to suddenly be lost in a familiar place. It’s hard to imagine how it feels to not understand what used to be a normal everyday experience. But you can be that one person who knows how to approach, what to say and what not to say.
Join The Purple Cities Alliance and learn how to make your community a safe place for your neighbors who have dementia. One day it could be your family member who needs help…or maybe even you!
Be the one! Training is quick, easy and free! We will come to your club meeting, staff meeting, church group…anywhere. Just go to our website and click the contact us!
On March 19, 2016 people all over the world will be hosting events to promote awareness of dementia and those who are dealing with it. In reality we are all dealing with dementia in some way, it could be that we are the ones who have been diagnosed with a form of dementia and are struggling with all that means. Struggling to live a normal life while we wait for it take away our memories and abilities a little at a time. Or maybe we are the spouse of someone who is trying to live with it, and we are forced to watch them suffer losses and struggle to hold onto themselves for as long as possible. Maybe we have a friend or a neighbor that is dealing with it, or we have been on line in the grocery store behind someone with it. No matter where, who or how, all of us, every one of us is affected by dementia. Many of us will one day face that frightening future ourselves.
Last year as I attended the Alzheimer's Walk I was suddenly aware of how many people who stood beside me years ago, were now living with dementia themselves.
This event, World Rocks Against Dementia, is one way to promote awareness. Knoxville is working on plans to join this event and details will be posted as soon as possible. Please look into bringing this event to your own communities. It doesn't have to be a huge rock concert, it can be anything at all. Just do something on March 19 to show your support for people dealing with dementia.
The story of life with dementia is being told by the people who are living it. Finally, we hear about this from the insiders. Not the physicians, nurses, aides or caregivers, we have heard their side. Not from the family, friends and loved ones, we know their stories. No, finally we hear about it from people like Norm MacNamara, Harry Urban, Kate Swaffer, Rick Phelps, the late Dr Richard Taylor and many others. Not afraid of the stigma, not concerned about what people will think, they bravely tell the story of day to day life with dementia. We now have a better understanding of what its like to hear the diagnosis and begin to make decisions for the time when they won't be able to make them anymore. We have listened to the horrors they live with daily. The night terrors, hallucinations, the losses they face as the disease takes its toll. And still through the heartbreak these brave people tell their stories. Their only goal is to help others understand what its like to go from a normal happy, healthy life to one riddled with fear of the future. Their brave fight to continue as long as possible working to bring awareness to a world that doesn't want to know!
Because of these people the world is becoming aware. More and more communities are joining the movement to be more inclusive of people with dementia. More programs are being started, more training and education is available and being utilized. Because a handful of people decided not to retreat to the shadows and instead brought their fight to the forefront we are finally learning how to better live with dementia. None of us know if or when this will be us, many of us working on dementia awareness today, will be the ones who need help in the future.
We all hope for a cure. We all want the research to continue. However we need to work on ways to help those already dealing with dementia. We need to make the world a safer, warmer more inclusive place.
Thank you to those brave souls who have blazed this trail. Thank to everyone working to make this vision a reality.
Keep on talking about it! Have the conversation with anyone and everyone. Let's make this work!
This week Riverside, CA declared itself a Purple City! Their Task Force is excited to make their city Dementia Friendly and raise awareness throughout their community. Surrounding communities are preparing to join them soon.
Seminole, FL is poised to become a Purple City, having begun to put together a training program and their Task Force is also excited to begin the process. We are so very proud to see this movement spreading, We have been contacted by several groups preparing to join us. Purple Cities Alliance has made all our materials available to any group wishing to join us. There is never any fees for using our educational materials, or our logo which was designed to be adapted to other cities.
We also learned this week, that our friend and founder of the Purple Angel Global Campaign, Norrms MacNamara has announced his retirement following the world wide Rock Against Dementia Concerts on March 19,2016. So now we have a new goal! Let's put together concerts in our Purple Cities and our soon to be Purple Cities. It can be local Music Groups or big name artists if you can get them but let's all do something to raise awareness and honor our friend Norm!
We have so many opportunities to raise awareness and grow our Purple Cities Alliance. Let's do this!